Top tips for completing the ultimate ‘bucket list’
Taken from Ecclesiastical Planning Services
We all have a mental list of things we would like
to do in life before we pass away. Writing a ‘bucket list’ brings you one step
closer towards making some of these goals a reality, however it can be more
difficult than you think to actually put a list together.
We’ve put together our top tips which will not only
help you write a list that is meaningful, but actually put it into action.
1.
Do your research
Starting your list is probably the easy part. The
first few things should come quite easily as we all have aspirations and
wishes, but forming a list that is going to give you what you want to achieve
from life is tricky. Check out what other people have listed online as this
might give you some inspiration. You might not necessarily want to do what they
have listed, but it could give you some good ideas that you never really
thought of.
2.
Don’t write it all
in one go
We’re all fickle deep down, what might interest you
now might not be something you feel the same way about later in life. Start
small, think of three things you would really like to do but have never had the
chance to do, then add to it as and when you think of something. Equally, your
life might change in a way that it doesn’t allow for what you’ve listed.
3.
Think outside the
box
The key here is do what you want to do, not what everyone else is doing. It’s easy to
compromise when thinking of things you’d like to see or experience, but think
outside the box and consider what is meaningful to you.
4.
Think of the
little things
If all of your goals are difficult to accomplish
you will quickly get discouraged and may not make the progress you’d like.
Think of things that can be done with little or no budget that will still mean
a lot to you. For example, face a phobia or rekindle an old friendship.
5.
Be realistic
Don’t include anything and everything you can think
of, it has to be achievable otherwise you may struggle to tick things off.
Finances are probably the biggest worry when it comes to writing and completing
your list, but you never know what the future will hold so don’t necessarily discount
lavish ideas. The important thing here is to not put too much pressure on
yourself.
6.
Go
out and do it
In 2012, The Guardian interviewed a palliative
nurse who had meticulously recorded the biggest regrets of the dying. The nurse
had discovered that by far the greatest regret those in the last stages of
their lives shared was that they had lived the life expected of them rather
than the life they wanted to lead. The second most common regret was working
too hard. It is often said that you never regret the times you did something
but it always the missed opportunities that haunt the mind the longest. The
simple way to avoid this is to look at your list and start ticking things off.
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